Posted by Phillip on November 13, 2001 at 11:21:34:
In Reply to: Re: Moving to Ukraine (no choice) posted by Lidiya on November 13, 2001 at 00:18:23:
Thank you for your encouragement. The decision to stay with her was not difficult, but the prospect of my life changing so drastically is difficult. I know some of what I must face, I have been there twice now. I would like to be able to give her the best life possible, but I think that survival is certainly possible - Ukrainians seem to have the ability to survive in conditions that Americans would consider very harsh (power and water shortages, economic conditions). I am not certain that deep in her heart she knows that I will go when the time comes, but I have told her that this is the truth.
: If you do not have a choice to stay with your deeply loved lady but move from the USA to Ukraine it means that you already made the best choice in your life.
: You need to be prepare to a different, not better life style, different language, and different everything. Believe me, it is not very easy even if you have everything you wish and person you love from a buttom of your heart.
: Think about this. Good luck.
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