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Posted by Petunia on August 27, 2005 at 09:32:52:
In Reply to: it's allright posted by Petro on August 27, 2005 at 09:07:59:
when you write you insult you insult and slur - you do realize that people who engage in bully behavior do so for reasons of insecurity and to protect themselves from injury -
"Any aggressive, dramatic or exaggerated reaction to an event is a sure sign that the person has blown the situation out of proportion and is experiencing a great deal of stress. Some signs to watch for are shouting or speaking loudly, interrupting others when they are talking, insisting that he or she is right and justified in their feelings, blaming, acting revengeful, breaking something (or someone), redness in the face, agitation or hyperactivity.
If you take the action personally, you become the victim. Set your feelings aside because this is not about you, it’s about how they feel about themselves in relation to whatever circumstances triggered their reaction. "