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Posted by Poradnyk on February 26, 2005 at 14:33:23:
In Reply to: nevirni Ukrajinski druzhyny posted by khrystyna on February 26, 2005 at 11:40:26:
DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING BECAUSE THIS IS BETWEEN THEM AND YOU ARE NOT A PART OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. THEY WOULD HAVE TO SORT IT OUT THEMSELVES IF NEEDED BE.
: Hi Everyone!
: I need an advice on very sensitive matter. For many I had a friend by the name Mark, he is a grate person and he had helped me a lot in the past. Our friendship went sour after he got married to a Ukrainian woman by the name Lena. I am Ukrainian, and I am a woman too, so Lena did not trust her hubby to have me for a friend even though we live in different states. But somehow Lena and I started talking on the phone a lot and became friends.
: To make long story short, a couple of days ago Lena told me that she is having an affair with her boss.
: I feel horrible about it. I know how nice Mark is to her (he is a nice person to begin with AND she told me that he is nice to her). And even though Mark and I do not communicate anymore I still feel thankful for all good that he has done for me in the past. And Lena trusted me with her dirty secret.
: What should I do? Do I tell Mark? I let Lena know what I think about her actions, but I do not think she cares. I know that marriage is a sacral thing and no one should intervene. But so is friendship and I feel morally obligated to do at list something.
: I am opened for suggestions
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